On this participating and heartfelt episode, Peg Fitzpatrick welcomes Sandra Sallin, an inspiring content material creator who has made waves within the social media world along with her charming YouTube channel. Collectively, they discover the artwork of constructing real connections on-line, Sandra’s distinctive on-camera confidence and the important function well being and group play as we age. The dialog additionally highlights the facility of Sandra’s storytelling on her YouTube channel and the impression of genuine interactions in nurturing a full of life, supportive group.
Be a part of us for a pleasant mixture of knowledge, humor, and motivation to pursue your passions and preserve curiosity at any stage of life.
High Takeaways:
- Constructing genuine connections makes an actual impression in social media.
- Pursuing content material creation out of your passions retains it enjoyable and relatable.
- Confidence on digicam can come from treating the viewers like buddies.
- Well being consciousness and common check-ups are essential, particularly as we age.
- Group thrives on significant interactions, not simply likes or numbers.
- Authenticity resonates deeply, fostering viewers loyalty and connection.
- Getting old gracefully will be empowering and encourage others.
- Private tales can uplift and inspire audiences in their very own journeys.
- Curiosity and openness to studying are key to lifelong development and achievement.
- Real, private engagement enhances on-line connections and assist.
Chapters:
- 00:00 – Constructing Genuine Connections
- 08:55 – The Journey to Content material Creation
- 17:57 – Authenticity and Confidence on Digicam
- 25:09 – Well being, Getting old, and Group Constructing
- 34:00 – Empowerment By way of Storytelling and Connection
Whether or not you’re beginning out or seeking to reconnect together with your artistic spark, this episode is a reminder that it’s by no means too late to share your voice and make a distinction on-line. Tune in, get impressed, and uncover how Sandra’s journey can inspire you to embrace your path confidently and authentically.
PLEASE observe Sandra’s YouTube Channel right here
PODCAST:
Transcript with Audio system Peg Fitzpatrick and Sandra Sallin (that is an AI transcript so it isn’t good)
Peg Fitzpatrick (00:05.038):
At the moment we’re going to speak about constructing genuine connections with Sandra Sallin, who’s my pal and she or he’s going to affix us. I will carry her in as quickly as she is right here.
Peg Fitzpatrick (00:27.566):
Thanks for becoming a member of. Let me know the place you guys are. I am gonna attempt saying, there we go. Good day. It labored. Woo, have a look at us doing the web. How spectacular is that? I do know. Wealthy was like, you are going stay with Sandra. Is it gonna be like six hours lengthy? I am like, no, we’d not do this to folks. So howdy, all people. I’m Peg Fitzpatrick.
And that is considered one of my social success sequence. And right this moment, as I discussed, we’re going to discuss with Sandra Sallin, who’s actually considered one of my favourite folks on the entire complete planet. And she or he is so inspiring. You guys are going to like listening to what Sandra has to say. So I am very blissful you are right here, Sandra. Thanks. Welcome to my discuss present.
Sandra Sallin:
Is not that enjoyable? I really like that concept.
Peg Fitzpatrick
So you might be, as I discussed, so inspiring to me. And a part of that’s since you are an 80, and I am not gifting away your age, since you say it in your individual bio, however you might be, you ought to be. You are an 83-year-old magnificence creator and you might be like a phenomenon on Instagram and YouTube. Folks love you and your content material. So are you able to inform me what’s impressed your ardour for creating movies and Instagram content material?
Sandra Sallin
It wasn’t actually me. Effectively, to start with, do you want me higher with glasses or with out?
Peg Fitzpatrick:
I really like each. I imply, in case you want them to see, then go away them on. However I imply, they, you all the time look nice with glasses. I by no means put on mine on-line.
Sandra Sallin:
Alright. Effectively, my husband likes glasses additionally. Yeah. Okay. So what impressed me? I wasn’t impressed. What occurred was my son stated, you have to do movies, mother. And also you stated, you have to do movies, Sandy. And I stated, huh?
I do not know what to do. What am I going to speak about? And so, so I did not and it took me perpetually and it was silly as a result of my son no less than as soon as a month would say, you have to do movies, mom. However I actually did not know what I used to be going to speak about. Then do you wish to know extra?
Peg Fitzpatrick (02:49.816):
Maintain going. I am listening.
Sandra Sallin:
Alright. So then what occurred was I watched someone on YouTube speaking about how in case you’re looking for one thing and also you’re one particular person, you have to know that there are hundreds looking out for a similar factor. And what I used to be looking for was make-up for the mature. And I am speaking about actually mature. I am not speaking about these little, these teen. And your 30s. Yeah, 30s, 40s. My God, I am 50. I am speaking about 60s, 70s and 80s. Yeah. had been lots of people. And I assumed, effectively, since I am actually excited by it, possibly that is what I will do.
Sandra Sallin:
I began with, you may love this, as a result of I really like doing Instagram lives as a result of I actually felt like I used to be speaking to folks. So I did one on lipstick and learn how to make it extra luscious trying. And I assumed, effectively, I will do one. And other people actually appreciated it. And I assumed, huh?
They usually needed extra.
Peg Fitzpatrick:
That is the way it began. Together with your love of lipstick. And by the best way, all people, Sandra picked out this lipstick for me. I all the time put on my Chanel. It is the Chanel that you just despatched me as a result of it is the most effective shade. It is the most effective shade on digicam, actually is.
Sandra Sallin:
what? It appears to be like fabulous together with your jacket.
Peg FItzpatrick:
I did tremendous pink right this moment. Pink with extra pink. Yeah. I imply, I did not have, I despatched Sandra some pre-questions, however like simply, beginning again, a part of the explanation that your son Matt and I each suppose it’s best to go stay or be on video is as a result of you’ve, clearly you’ve such an incredible character, however you even have a Hollywood background of digicam expertise and issues that possibly at this stage you were not essentially considering, I was in commercials and I have been in entrance of the digicam, however I believe all of these issues actually, typically are.
The backgrounds do not understand that issues that we have achieved in our previous relate a lot to what we’re doing now or what, like, you actually began out, you had been gonna be, effectively, we did not even speak about your, your first fundamental profession was you had been a tremendous artist. And I do not know if there is a portray proper behind you; suppose there’s that manner. Yep. There’s, there’s a bit of little bit of considered one of Sandra’s work. So Sandra was a tremendous artist for many years. She created like a wonderful artwork. So that is Sandra’s like, subsequent factor. This is rather like a subsequent factor that she’s doing
Peg Fitzpatrick (05:14.69):
However so lots of the different issues that she did in her life, creativity and clearly being an artist is all expression, proper? However a unique manner. So yeah, I believe it prefer it all form of tied into what you do now, despite the fact that it wasn’t what you probably did to your fundamental factor.
Sandra Sallin:
A humorous factor, I examine folks, you already know, worrying about being in entrance of a digicam. I simply by no means was. And I do not even after I did commercials, it was all the time simply actually me and I simply by no means bothered me. I even, you already know, I believe one of many questions possibly was after I discuss on like on YouTube or on Instagram, I am actually speaking to a pal. It isn’t an entire group of individuals, however I believe that it is one pal and that I am speaking, we’re out to lunch and we’re having a very nice dialog.
Peg :
So that you form of boiled down what advertising is, despite the fact that you are not a advertising skilled, like you’ve, you’ve got created what they name like your avatar, your like supreme buyer, your supreme shopper, all these issues imply the identical factor, however you want boil that down with out even realizing all of the advertising converse of similar to, I am simply going to concentrate on like one particular person and you do not suppose, that is scary. We’re stay proper now. And who’s going to see the video? You are similar to, I am trying on the digicam, having a dialog and it is with
It is tremendous. Is not that fascinating?
Sandra Sallin:
It’s. And you already know what else is humorous? I speak about a number of issues that lots of people do not wish to speak about or that I am photographed in a manner that no one of their proper thoughts could be photographed. However I do not even suppose something of it till I meet someone they usually know a lot about me and I do not perceive how they know a lot about me, not realizing that I’ve spilled all of it.
Peg:
I do know a few of your YouTube thumbnails crack me up. Your earlier than and after footage are actually the most effective. They are surely. Personally would by no means, like I really like make-up too. Sandra and I each love make-up. It is considered one of our little bonding issues, however I’ve by no means filmed something like with no make-up to do like a prepare with me. However a part of that’s folks do not observe me for that. They might be like, Who cares? Like we wish to know the advertising facet of issues. So I believe for me, folks could be like, wow, she appears to be like a bit of drained right this moment. Why does she don’t have any shade in her face? Trigger I’ve to say, that is one factor while you’re older shade disappears out of your face. Prefer it’s draining out. I believe, proper?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure. do suppose. Sure. Effectively, I’ve a girlfriend who owns a make-up firm and she or he was aghast and shocked. What do you imply filming proper after you’ve got had surgical procedure? Are you out of your thoughts?
She was actually, do not do this, do not ever do this. After which she stated, possibly I am flawed.
Peg Fitzpatrick (09:54.346):
It is simply, it simply takes braveness, proper? To do the no make-up factor. , you simply must say, you already know what, different folks do it. I imply, I imply, to be trustworthy, like Hannah Martin make-up, she’s someone that you just love, Hannah Martin. She is so stunningly stunning earlier than with no make-up. After which she places make-up on and she or he’s like,
Sandra Sallin:
Gorgeous instances, every part. However you, you and I will not be, Hannah’s in all probability 30s, however I imply, that was some time in the past for us. So, I imply, she does look nice earlier than and after. So we’ll return to our questions day by day. And in case you’re watching, I’m going to do a giveaway for my new ebook on the finish. I am gonna provide you with guys a secret phrase that you just’re gonna must remark on this put up when it is on as an precise put up.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So on the finish, we are going to do a giveaway for a ebook.
Sandra Sallin:
I’ve already ordered yours.
Peg
Thanks. I recognize that. What does authenticity imply to you in your put up? And the way is that? I believe you already answered that one since you talked about the way you’re simply speaking to 1 particular person. So confidence on digicam is not straightforward for most individuals. What has helped construct yours? And what recommendation would you share for anybody who’s digicam shy?
Sandra Sallin (?):
It truly is speaking to someone over lunch. That it is that I actually am speaking. I actually really feel like I am speaking to an individual. I am not. That is about it. Yeah. Form of consider it as speaking to 1 particular person. You are not speaking to hundreds. However in case you’re simply speaking to 1 particular person and having lunch and giving them concepts and having backwards and forwards, despite the fact that there isn’t any backwards and forwards. But it surely’s the best way I might discuss to someone. Yeah.
Sandra Sallin:
When was the final time I went out to lunch?
Peg: July?
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do not know if it was that in July. Proper. It was with you.
Peg:
I visited Sandra in July, all people. And we went out to lunch and it was the most effective. So that you’re always studying and mastering new abilities, which I believe lots of people say, you already know, anyone who’s not a millennial or above, that it is simply past them. However so what’s your secret to staying curious and open to evolving tech?
Sandra Sallin (?):
I might say that it is simply being curious. I have been, I, you already know, I am going down deep darkish holes, you already know, to seek out the solutions to issues. And out of the blue I will be, I will learn some little factor. What was it? The newest was the, the, I have been studying a sequence of books by Robert Dugani and I needed to know his background. And so I will go deep, deep, deep, deep, deep and, and discover, discover out issues that no one is aware of about.
I used to be a beta tester and this needed to be 20, 30 years in the past. Love discovering, I consider a pc as being like this wizard and I adore it and discovering out learn how to do new issues, I discover it very thrilling. Imply, did not come out, am I too shut?
Peg:
I am in all probability too shut. We’re like leaning in to speak to one another. It’s very tremendous.
Sandra Sallin:
So after I did, so being a beta tester, I discover, as I say, pc and the iPhone similar to a wizard. I’ve received magic in my palms. And so I wish to know extra and to have the ability to do extra. I adore it. Imply, I speak about my Photoshop, Instagram, and Instagram is not straightforward. And what else? Video modifying. My god. That is exhausting.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Video modifying is likely one of the hardest issues I believe.
Sandra Sallin (?):
To be trustworthy, I believe it’s too. So do you, wait, I simply had a query. I completely misplaced my practice of thought that I used to be gonna ask you. From Beta. Perhaps it will come again to me. You understand how issues are available in your head after which they’re gone? That simply occurred.
Peg Fitzpatrick (12:10.542):
So you’ve got constructed actually nice connections within the magnificence with magnificence influencers and different YouTubers, which I believe has helped you develop so much. What’s your method to reaching out and the way do you advocate others make these connections?
Sandra Sallin (?):
, I consider them, different folks or different folks as actual folks and I do not do it to make use of folks.
Sandra Sallin (?):
But when someone has an incredible trying outfit, I will not simply give a coronary heart or a verify or a thumbs up. I will actually say one thing. I relate to Hannah Martin and her beautiful kids. I’ll by no means speak about her make-up, however I do speak about her kids. And possibly she’s placing an excessive amount of emphasis on the brand new, you already know, on Bo and possibly she needs to be doing extra on Bear. I imply, I speak about, you already know, I discuss to folks on an actual degree versus a pc degree and simply the outside degree that I see. I try to see extra than simply what’s in, you already know, simply the image. Like I simply noticed Linda, proper? How can Linda, proper, is a really, very trendy girl who has a store in Paris and attire so nice and so I speak about, you already know, how, possibly it’s best to begin carrying burlap sack.
Sandra Sallin:
I imply, it is sufficient that you just’re so beautiful. And why does anyone want a Dior pair of blue denims? I am certain no one talked to her that manner. However I talked to her in a manner, you already know, in an actual manner. And that is how I believe I’ve gotten.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Go away genuine, like true feedback, not similar to a coronary heart and a like and a extremely brief factor that basically anyone might say that is not actually significant.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
It doesn’t suggest something. Proper. You will need to do this. So yeah, in case you guys like folks’s content material, just be sure you’re giving them like considerate feedback which can be greater than three phrases. YouTube, not YouTube, however Instagram actually does have a look at that. Like what number of conversations you are having in direct messages with folks, they have a look at all of these issues once they resolve who to indicate issues to. So it helps folks so much. And because the algorithms maintain us from seeing folks. Like typically I’ve to go get hold of individuals who I like as a result of they don’t seem to be displaying up in my feed. Then I actually make it possible for I am going to these folks. You are able to do just like the little bell or star on any of the social platforms to be sure to see all of individuals’s content material.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yep, someone stated. I do know what you imply. Sure, I’ve achieved that.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, you are able to do the little bell or the little star that exhibits you, so that you see all of somebody’s posts. Since you do not see stuff anymore. It is so exhausting. After which I am like, , I have never seen so-and-so’s stuff in a very long time. Like Hannah Martin, we’ll simply maintain speaking about Hannah Martin, as a result of I really like her too. However I imply, I’ve commented on her stuff a bunch. know, I despatched her, know, like, shared her stuff earlier than. After which typically I simply do not even see it. And I do know she’s posting on a regular basis.
Sandra Sallin:
She is. I simply noticed one thing this morning and thought, effectively, I missed one thing on Sunday.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, proper. I believe a part of that’s proper now due to all of the politics stuff. I believe all of the advert spends on stuff is taking on a number of the algorithm house, which stinks. You are proper. I’ve thought that possibly it would get again to regular ish, however who is aware of?
Peg:
Constructing a web based group the place folks really feel seen as uncommon, what has been probably the most rewarding a part of bringing folks collectively by means of your content material? As a result of you’ve a number of commenting in your YouTube movies and your Instagram.
Sandra Sallin:
, I’m very moved that I’ve helped individuals who, you already know, they see me at 83 subsequent month, 84. Do you imagine the yr after that I will be 85? God, I do imagine it. imagine you are simply going to maintain going perpetually, my God.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Wait, what was I going say? So folks see me. So folks see me they usually see me doing ridiculous issues or simply being me. And this girl was writing that she was a realtor.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And she or he thought, effectively, I am 65, so I have to retire as a result of I do not, I am not going to do something anymore. After which she noticed my movies and she or he thought, my God, this girl is in her eighties and she or he’s doing issues and she or he’s energetic and she or he wears make-up and she or he’s on the market. you already know, she stated, you already know what? I finished, I went out of retirement. I began carrying make-up and I went again to work. so, sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (16:58.766):
And that is, is not that phenomenal? really feel like 65 is outdated at this level, proper? Imply, now we have much more outdated, you already know, as a result of there are individuals who retire at 25 and there are individuals who, are they going to do? I am like, what are you going to do for 60 years?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I am with you, however it’s when folks, that is why I additionally speak about my well being. I would like folks to know that I do not stay in some good world. That I’ve received my points, no one’s life is ideal. That is why I allow them to see me trying ridiculous. was one thing the opposite day and I might had a basal cell most cancers on my brow and I see me with an enormous bandage right here and an enormous bandage there and I assumed, know, let folks see what it is actually like.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
, I do know the place you’ve scars and I by no means ever, ever discover them on something on-line. I by no means see them.
Sandra Sallin (?):
To be trustworthy, I do not even take note of them. Do not. They’re so, I believe it is similar to getting previous that. As a result of I believe one of many issues while you’re filming your self so much and also you’re on Instagram so much and YouTube a
your self so much, you are your self so much and it’s totally unnatural. Such as you will be actually overly crucial and be like, you already know what, I am not gonna movie myself as a result of my face appears to be like a bit of puffy right this moment or like, you already know, 1,000,000 issues. And it is like, you already know what, I simply, I do not even care about that anymore as a result of that is what I appear to be right this moment, all people like, hey, I really feel prefer it’s a very good model of me. We’re by no means gonna be good. There is not any good.
Sandra Sallin (?):
My husband, the producer director, I made a video and I simply sat down right here and I did not have any mild. I do not even know if the sunshine is nice proper now. I simply sat down right here and I did this video. I regarded horrible, however the video did so effectively. My husband stated, I by no means need you to sit down down and do a video and appear to be that. And no one cares. And I did not care. I nonetheless do not.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Effectively, Bob is the most effective. Sandra’s husband, Bob, he is a legend. He’s a legend. And he is so nice with filming as a result of he has had a really lengthy profession in Hollywood doing all totally different sorts of issues, writing, producing. However principally he is Sandra’s secret weapon behind the scenes. Proper.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are so fortunate that manner. I did two level lighting right this moment, so we’ll see how mine is. You had California sunshine. I look darkish or not, however anyway, I did it myself. Effectively, you may discover out later.
Peg Fitzpatrick (19:22.378):
You are so proper. I? Sure, you are proper. Completely received kicked off Instagram. That is week two. So that isn’t cool. I will attempt to add Sandra again in once more and I will end up our Instagram stay the place we’re speaking about authenticity and right here we go I am including being on-line and being your self and the way that connects with folks. So I do not know why Instagram, that is the second time you’ve bumped me off whereas I am stay. Sorry, Sandra, that’s week two the place I received like simply randomly knocked off. Sandra received knocked off, I am gonna add her in once more. Instagram will not be loving us right this moment, howdy. I carry on seeing this white display that claims request to be on this stay video. Effectively, you are stay now.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Now we’re again stay. I do not know why that occurred two weeks in a row. Now you simply popped out once more. I will pull you again in. Instagram is preventing us with every part it has. Perhaps Sandra’s web is not nice. I am probably not certain, however I am attempting so as to add her again in. OK. I do not know why it retains knocking you off, however I am gonna override it and maintain bringing you again in. How dare they? kidding. So I am unable to see myself. All I see is a white display saying-
Peg;
However you might be stay. I can see you and also you’re stay now. Then let’s simply do it and I am unable to see myself, which might be tremendous. I might love to not see myself proper now. So earlier than we get kicked off once more, I am gonna do a giveaway of my ebook. So that you guys, if you’re watching now, the key phrase is social success, which I will present you social success. So when that is posted, you simply have to remark within the feedback and say social success and simply say one factor that you just appreciated about this Instagram stay with Sandra and I, and you will be entered tomorrow.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’ll select a winner. You do should be in america as a result of delivery is exorbitant as of late. I went to ship a ebook and it was $12 and that was within the U.S. I used to be like, geez, put up workplace. I do not understand how Amazon does it. However have a look at how a lot a is. Is not it 79 cents? is. One thing loopy. is. Completely loopy. the place had been we? We talked about constructing your group. We’re on constructing your group and the way commenting and simply constructing the group. Effectively, it helps your content material develop as a result of when folks remark,
Peg Fitzpatrick (22:23.31):
And so while you’re on YouTube, what are your methods for constructing your group? Do you’ve any?
Sandra Sallin:
I want I did. I have to learn your ebook. I do not suppose I’ve a method. I try to be as trustworthy as I can. I am not trustworthy. I do make-up, however then I get bored. And what did I just lately do? I did a factor about how I misplaced weight.
Sandra Sallin:
And about how I am exercising. However I believe persons are loving that.
Peg:
Persons are loving that you just’re strolling and also you’re sharing it. And other people don’t know how hilly your neighborhood is. Sandra’s neighbor will not be like Little Hills is. She’s in like a, she’s on a mountain form of, proper? Aren’t you?
Sandra:
I imply, simply the opposite day I did my final of doing all of those hills and I assumed to myself, after which I used to be purported to exit at evening and I assumed, I do not know if I can do it. I actually.
Sandra Sallin:
However that is nice. I imply, if I wish to breathe, all I’ve to do is stroll. It is like magic.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure, little issues like that. However folks have actually loved it. In order that’s why I assumed, effectively, I will inform folks about how I have been in a position to reduce weight. As a result of we will all, we will all, all of us have the identical downside. All of us have that weight to lose. All of us have to train. And the way many people do it?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
One other beauty of you is that you just actually keep on prime of all of your physician appointments, which I believe is de facto necessary for folks to go to the physician and observe the physician’s recommendation. , I believe lots of people do not do this.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I believe, yeah, I believe possibly when folks grow old, such as you’re similar to, okay, I higher go for all this stuff.
Peg: However you already know, folks complain about going for a mammogram, like how horrible it’s. I am like, you already know, You gotta do it because- my God, do not, please. I imply, did you see the story I did about simply my newest mammogram?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. The place I assumed, I am tremendous, I am tremendous, I am tremendous. After which they are saying, effectively, we have to perform a little bit extra. They usually did uncover a cyst, nevertheless it’s not cancerous. However what if I hadn’t gone?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know. You need to do it, all people. And it is October, so it is breast most cancers consciousness month. One factor that you could study from that is please go get your mammograms and sustain in your physician appointments. Go to the dentist annually. Like that is one other factor folks do not take into consideration as a dentist.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I am going to the dentist twice a yr. Do you go twice a yr?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I am going twice. I am going each six months.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve to go each three or 4 months.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You do?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. Effectively, trigger you’ve got received like your enamel well being is tied to your psychological well being. It is also tied to your coronary heart well being.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Actually?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
It’s extremely, they’re co-dependent.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Sure.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And you already know, you may get infections in your mouth or in your coronary heart and it could go to your, it is one thing. Do not hearken to me, however do hearken to me. You have to go.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Sure, make all of your appointments. Make each appointment that you have to make. Observe up on it and observe the physician’s recommendation. Then you may thrive like Sandra. That is what I say.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Proper. Going to each physician identified to mankind. Effectively.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
What it’s important to, now we have one physique. We solely get one physique.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper. You are proper. However anyway, so I do not, I want I had been extra, however I am not. I actually do issues, do issues about what I really feel like doing. I might actually like to do extra about cooking, however they aren’t as common.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Trigger your viewers is form of educated to your pro-aging. And that is why they like your strolling. It is form of all tied with the identical factor. Similar to for me, folks actually observe me for social media issues. And I additionally speak about being a author. And typically I share like different issues in my life, like little issues. But when I attempt to do make-up content material, assured folks could be like, no, thanks.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I used to be considering of you this morning as I placed on the Pat McGrath powder beneath my eyes that you just insisted that I have to get.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So sure, it is enjoyable although. take pleasure in it. You’ve got received nice make-up ideas. However somebody simply stated that they love seeing your kitchen while you prepare dinner. what, I additionally present, I do not understand how anyone can have a dirtier kitchen after they end cooking and even.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Judy says please prepare dinner. Perhaps folks do like your cooking.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, however I suppose not sufficient. And I additionally do not have. I haven’t got the format that is good for cooking. My husband needs them to see my face. And he does, sure, he is, know, he is, he is of the old-fashioned. You do not simply present the, the, why cannot I get this white factor gone? What if I-
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Peter McNally says, are these Zuck glasses, Sandra? she simply knocked herself out. I will pull her again in once more. The web is preventing and Sandra and I refuse to lose. Let’s examine if I can pull her in once more.
Peg Fitzpatrick (27:32.472):
To reply, suppose these are simply common glass. I pulled you again in once more. Are your glasses ZEC glasses? do not suppose, your glasses are common glasses, proper? They don’t seem to be just like the, however they don’t seem to be the meta glasses. They’re asking if in case you have the meta, the meta glasses with just like the stuff in them. do not even know what that’s. They’ve some tech glasses. Bear in mind when Google glass got here out they usually had the glasses the place you could possibly movie and stuff. Meta has a model of that now, which is hysterical as a result of Google already did it. After which Snapchat.
Sandra Sallin (?):
There was snap, keep in mind when there was Snapchat glasses? I do not even take note of that stuff.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wayfarers. They only have common glasses. Okay, they need, he needed to know in the event that they had been wayfarers.
Sandra Sallin (?):
No, these are Warby Parker, and the fashion is Sonia. Yep. And you’ve got these in a few colours. Proper. I’ve received them in black and in tortoiseshell. Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (29:37.454):
I really like them. I get extra feedback about my glasses. You’ll suppose that Warby Parker would possibly give me a pair without cost? No.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You need to contact them for a model partnership. I will provide help to do this. We’ll do this offline.
Sandra Sallin:
Anyway, so sure, these are simply bifocals. I believe they work. Do away with, you do not see traces. As a substitute, you simply see possibly lips and glasses. I really feel like typically after I put on them that they, I do not know.
Peg: The exhausting factor is while you do your make-up and also you spend a lot time and you place glasses on after which it immediately adjustments your make-up. That’s irritating for me.
Sandra Sallin: Take a look at my eyeshadow that you could’t And the way I did my eyebrows. Yeah. Come on. And I did a bit of little bit of lining beneath right here. , the liner. You possibly can’t, then you definately put your glasses on and no one even sees it. That is irritating for me.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Proper. And I by no means put on them after I’m stay. really feel like, I do not know, I get a glare or I do not know. I like my new glasses that I received, however I simply by no means put on mine on digicam. Even in images. I believe a part of it’s that for images, you all the time get some form of mild glare or, Do I’ve a lightweight glare? No, you do not. However I’ve a hoop mild on, so I positively would. Like, I’ve some, wait, I will seize, I’ve some, these are similar to peepers. We’ll see if I get them. If I do get, do I, see I get an enormous, yeah.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Okay, then possibly you want the 2 mild factor.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’ve the 2 mild factor on proper now. However I am actually near my mild ring, in order that may very well be a part of it.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Perhaps that is it. Mine are over right here on the aspect. I haven’t got something. The lights are over right here on the aspect. Perhaps that is why I am doing it flawed.
Sandra Sallin:
Nothing in entrance of me. You need to discuss to Bob. He’ll let you know what to do.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Undoubtedly ought to. Undoubtedly ought to. OK, so we’ll return right here. And I will ask you in case you might return and provides your self, your youthful self, one piece of recommendation. What wouldn’t it be?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Be extra, and have extra religion in your self. Be stronger. Have extra self-confidence. I might say that.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, that is a very good one. It positively comes with age, does not it? I believe 20s and 30s are a really exhausting time since you’re so exhausting on your self, and you are feeling like your life has all these deadlines. I imply, you bought married younger, however I imply, generally…
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I received married younger too. And we picked nice husbands that we’re nonetheless married. Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Peg’s husband is a hoot. He is nice. He is very vivid and he is a delight to be with.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I believe identical together with your husband. I believe a part of the factor is a extremely nice lesson. It issues a lot who you select to be your accomplice. Proper. It is so necessary. And you do not understand while you’re actually younger and also you’re selecting that particular person, you do not even know all of the issues that it is like, are they gonna be good at funds or a very good household particular person or good with children? You do not know any of these issues while you’re courting folks.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I imply, my granddaughter is 22 years previous. I received married after I simply turned 20. There isn’t any manner that I might need my granddaughter getting married at that age. There’s a lot I do not know that I assumed I knew all of it.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do know. You positively, I believe that is the 18 to 24 possibly you suppose you already know every part and also you’re infallible and well being issues, go to the physician, why trouble? These sorts of issues.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
No, I am with you. So I believe that I wanted to have extra self-confidence. Though it by no means saved me from doing commercials, beginning my profession, however I believe that I might have been…
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, you already know what? Wait a second. I am a lot older, and ladies weren’t… Have you learnt we needed to have our husbands signal so we might get a bank card?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I used to be simply going to say that as a result of it is solely 50 years since ladies might have a bank card. So that you had been truly married. It was truly simply the fiftieth anniversary of that. So that you had been truly married while you could not have a bank card. Proper. It was an enormous deal to have your individual bank card. And the opposite factor was it was just the start of the girl’s motion. Yeah.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Look how far we have come, child. No, you already know, we…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
However I really feel like my era like dropped the ball on it. And now I really feel like these youthful women are completely choosing up and, and I’ve a lot religion within the Gen Z women which can be on the market. Like, you already know, they’re actually good with like, they’re getting nearer to equal pay. Imply, males are preventing tooth and nail on equal pay.
Sandra Sallin (?):
That’s one thing that is ridiculous. And I assumed, you already know, there’s so many ways in which that may very well be gone at this level, you already know, like simply hiring practices, even the web, like when the web got here out, you already know, running a blog was very fashionable and no one might see who was running a blog. It ought to have been equal for women and men and for talking engagements and all of that. And once more, males, it was like males received all of the ebook offers, males received all of the talking engagements, males, you already know, males’s blogs the place it is like, why, why, you already know, it is simply, every part is…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Ladies must do every part that Ginger Rogers, you already know, backwards and in heels. The opposite factor is, keep in mind while you did not give your actual title since you did not need them to know you had been feminine? So that you simply used initials, and I believe they nonetheless do. I imply, it is horrible.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. And while you’re saying they used to do it, it even goes again to all the best way again to love Louisa Might Alcott when she was writing books, had to make use of a faux title so they’d purchase her ebook as a result of she was a lady.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
It goes manner again to love feminine writers.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Simply to your proper. However then why did we all know that it was a Louisa Might Alcott? She ultimately began utilizing her title as soon as her ebook was actually common.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Someone says, our favourite ebook that every of you’ve learn this yr. That is a very good query. What’s your favourite? I’ve learn so many books. What was your favourite?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Extraordinary Lifetime of Sam Hale. I didn’t learn that one.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
That is by Robert Dugoni. That is how I began with him. After which I am studying thriller tales. I am having the most effective time studying thriller tales. I simply learn, I simply completed a thriller.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve simply completed…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Have you ever learn any Laura Dave’s books?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Spell the final title.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
D-A-V-E Laura Dave.
Sandra Sallin (?):
No.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
The one I simply completed is The Night time We Misplaced Him. It is a thriller. They’re good. They’re good. I like actually could not put it down. I learn the entire thing. I am a quick reader. I learn the entire thing this weekend. I used to be like, wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve to know what occurs. Perceive that. Simply wrote her title down. I will test it out.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
If you happen to like thrillers, she’s received a few good ones. She received her first, I do not know if it was her first ebook, however considered one of her books was picked up in Reese Witherspoon’s ebook membership. So it was large and it was become that, right into a sequence on Apple with Jennifer Garner. So that is the ebook that she has after that.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Good for her.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, she’s checked out a number of books.
Sandra Sallin (?):
, it is like Reese Witherspoon, you already know, we’re not speaking about social media, simply in case you had been . However have a look at all these ladies who’ve these ebook golf equipment and purchase these books in order that they’ll produce them and that they’ll, you already know, function ladies, you already know, as a result of who else needs to function ladies?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know, Reese Witherspoon has actually achieved so much for that with beginning her manufacturing firm. And when she began it, I simply learn an article about it as a result of it was like,
Sandra Sallin (?):
the fifth anniversary, suppose possibly of it. And she or he made no cash in any respect to start with. And she or he stated, I had no concept how the manufacturing and labored in any respect on it. They usually had been like, do not ever, like all of her monetary advisors had been like, do not do that. However she was like, I have to function ladies. Want, folks have hearts and it could’t all be the male perspective and the male cash and the, the tales should be totally different advised by totally different folks. So she produced a few issues and it was like,
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
wild and one other one which was simply as massive and she or he, the corporate, manufacturing firm nonetheless made no cash. She was like, how does that occur? Like, this was like an enormous film. It takes, Hollywood is a loopy world over there with cash. Simply work out who someplace somebody’s making the cash, however who is aware of what that’s.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Proper. , film will make billions of {dollars}, however we did not make any revenue. I do not understand how that occurs.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know it is form of the identical with books. I imply, you, you write a ebook. You you get prematurely after which like my ebook, it is like, it is $30. I do not make $30 on it. I make, I do not even know precisely how a lot, nevertheless it’s in all probability like 350 or $4 possibly per ebook. We’re, know.
Sandra Sallin (?):
As an artist, you hand over 50%.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
50 %?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yep.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do know. That is painful, proper?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Very.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Very.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So why is the fee so excessive? As a result of I suppose they must have an artwork gallery. They must, they must maintain a brick and mortar place going. That is, I’ve by no means heard of that fee that top. Imply, authors and also you now we have like 20%, you already know, goes to your agent after which, you already know, then it goes to, you already know, there’s, people who find themselves taking a bit out, however not 50%.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I actually suppose it is as a result of they must have a brick and mortar place and that they must have, you already know, openings. Imply, how a lot can that be for some wine? Proper? Yeah.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Loopy. Ought to in all probability get off since you and I might discuss for six hours this weekend.
Sandra Sallin (?):
We might discuss perpetually. And I recognize each single one who’s been watching. On this one, I am unsure if we even stated it, however I am doing a giveaway of my ebook. If you happen to touch upon this one, there’s going to be two, sadly posts as a result of we received lower off and now we’re again. I’ll save this one additionally. So remark social success on both one of many posts from our stay video and I’ll select somebody tomorrow to get a signed copy and I’ll put up who the winner is.
Peg Fitzpatrick (42:15.886):
Tomorrow on my social channels. And somebody stated, Sandy, like to see you. Ship you’re keen on from Melbourne, UK. Your followers from all around the world are saying hello.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Is not that fabulous? Thanks. However wait, one factor. Sure. Do folks know who you might be? Do they know?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
What sort of a social media skilled you might be. Effectively, in the event that they observe me.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Okay. Persons are commenting. It may well’t be within the feedback right here. It must be on it after I save this put up as a result of all of the feedback after we’re stay truly disappear. After I reserve it, it saves as a brand new put up. Is not that loopy? However anyway, it saves as a brand new put up and all of the feedback within the stay are gone.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So that you truly have to touch upon the put up after I reserve it. So I will be there in only a second. However there’s one from the primary half. Silly Instagram. So I do not know, do you guys know who I’m? Are you right here from, I do not suppose it exhibits after we’re stay collectively. After I regarded that up it stated no. However possibly persons are following you. If you happen to guys do not know, I am Peg Fispatrick. I wrote this ebook, I wrote one other ebook. I have been working in social media for like 15 years, a really very long time.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And I really like social media. So I really feel unhealthy for folks simply becoming a member of now as a result of we’re simply on the point of head off. Sure, however you’ve got additionally represented folks and been their social media saviors and actually massive, massive folks. And you have taught folks learn how to be, effectively, you’ve got achieved their social media. You might be actually skilled and folks ought to know that, that sure, you are actually, actually necessary.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do not know if I am necessary, however I have been doing it a very long time. I am fairly good at it, that is for certain. I’ve my 10,000 hours in for certain, despite the fact that that fantasy was dispelled.
Sandra Sallin (?):
What does 10,000 hours imply?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Bear in mind the Malcolm Gladwell idea that anyone might get good at one thing in the event that they did it for 10,000 hours? I by no means began counting.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You’ve your 10,000 hours in in case you rely all of your YouTube watching and commenting and…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Assured you do since you’ve been doing this for a extremely very long time too.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper, you are proper. Whenever you begin from while you began running a blog.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You are proper. That was a very good 12 years in the past. You’ve got been doing this for a very long time. You weren’t a beginner, Sandra.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I really feel prefer it, although. Every single day is a brand new day.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
To be trustworthy, it is like that for everybody in social media as a result of stuff adjustments. it’s contemporary. It is all contemporary and new. So thrilling. Effectively, I will finish this as a result of now we have been on a very long time and I actually recognize your time. If you happen to guys are following me and you are not following Sandra, please just be sure you observe her and take a look at her wonderful Instagram and her YouTube channel, which is incredible. And if you’re following her Instagram, it’s best to 100% be following her for her longer content material on YouTube. You need to observe her on each as a result of it isn’t the identical precise factor.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Thanks very a lot. I recognize that little plug.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Effectively, you already know, I believe folks do not understand typically that they are following folks on a regular basis and they may not understand that hopefully they understand however your YouTube channel is your longer type content material. So it is extra Sandra.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper. Extra Sandra. And you’ll watch no matter you need. Video on demand.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You are proper. Yeah. So I will finish and I thanks guys for watching. And subsequent week will likely be recorded after which now we have two or three, I believe I’ve three extra stay on this sequence. So it will be Tuesdays at one o’clock Jap. 10 o’clock.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Thanks a lot. Western. And I’ll see you guys later. Thanks.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Thanks, Peg. It is all the time enjoyable.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Completely. Bye.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Bye.
