Actually?
Which self?
The self you have been if you have been two years outdated, virtually out of diapers?
The self you have been if you have been screaming with the followers on the huge sport?
The self you have been after an extended evening?
How about this: Turn out to be the self you’d be proud to be. Hang around with individuals and concepts that allow you to change into that self. Act like that self each probability you get.